mardi 19 août 2014

Eight Tips for dealing with a child from the age of two years

It may seem to deal with the frequent movement of children or Scamps difficult for parents, especially if their child is pristine, children sometimes seem stubborn and reckless and indifferent to listen to their parents, can not take it easily, and leave your child misbehaves. If you must do something.
            The question asked is: What do I do when my child act offends not listen to me? And how to deal with Hqaute and stubbornness?
Today we will introduce eight tips to help you deal with your child easily. And do not forget to write in the comments whether these methods helped you in dealing with your problem.

1 does not scream never in your child's face, Vabakh instills fear in his mind, will appear in his later life different problems such as lack of confidence and fear, phobias and mental problems, too.

2 Talk with your child! Be sure to solve the problem by talking with him face to face, and in a proper way and respectful, and he tried to descend to the level of your child and his mentality even understand the subject, and give him always a reason logically and convincingly, and remember that yelling and beating Aantg only stubbornness and hatred.

  3 spoke with the child sitting on your knees; to be the level of his body, and be sure to look in his eyes when you talk to him; because the child is shorter in length from you; feels inferiority and fear when you look at him and caused from above, and you stand.

4 Do not fear your child ever, many parents of children intimidating goblins and thieves and others, Kcolhm: If you do not do as well as the thief will come and take you to punish you. This act is very wrong and does not help in education at all, but we assume that the child is doing what you are warning him of it, did not get him what Tuadth by then it will not believe you, nor your trusted completely, which can also lead to psychological problems such as fear and phobias.

5 Do not lie to your child never Kcolk: I'll be back after two hours, while you are a plan to spend more time. And not prepared with something like: "We will go shopping today," while in fact you do not intend it. And avoid request lie your baby like that says: "Say to those who at the door, I'm not at home," A child trusts his parents blind trust, and look to them as role models and a source of inspiration, but it will not be your trusted never when he realizes that you have lied to him, you'll also make him get used to to lie when telling him of lying to someone else, so automatically a liar, and will lie on each one until his parents.

6-Keep your voice at a moderate Hawwark with your child about his actions, do not you lower your voice is so does not diminish the importance of the subject, and does not speak a tone of apology and makes it the owner of the hand you graduate. It also does not scream in his face at all, do not smile, but strictly speaking it packs a moderate and serious like you're in an interview or talk to a staff, and spoke to him in a respectful manner does not make him lose his dignity. He must also know that you and his father and he must listen to you and your respect there is no room for nonsense.

7 Try chair rioters when you lose control of the situation, it is a chair or a place free of entertainment, it may be part of the living room, the child is obliged to sit in it for five minutes when rioting (Always stay in the same room where they are present, do not send never to another room and it does not close the door on it). If the child ahead of time, simply return the person again, and if you do not care about you increase the time and try not to exceed the time 10-15 minutes Most children respond to their parents during this period, and when regrets and apologizes, forgave him and him and take him Bhoudnk.

8 Finally, but not least Reward your child when they show good progress in his behavior, you are reinforcing confidence in himself, and makes him feel worth the reward. Encourage your child to a further improvement in his behavior.

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